advantages and disadvantages but may improve a group of animals. You are basing your entire argument on the absurd idea that women are neither competitive nor violent, and that maternal instinct prevents them from being competitive or violent. The police come and remove the man from his home and family. You didn't approve my last response. yes, these atrocities were mostly committed by men but that does not mean that the majority of men would want to do such things. Matriarchy is a social system in which women hold the primary power positions in roles of authority. As for saying I don't like men. No. To me government should be about getting intellegent and caring people into positions of power. I have one more question: Supposing what you say is true, then could you please describe to us in detail how your matriarchy should look? I mean, don't you have better things to do with your life in first place or are you completely out of work? If things get worse then people might look for something different but the chances are they will look to Facism or bring back communism or perhaps go to extreme religion. It has powered up our remote work enthusiasm and has made us able to perform at our best. The Arena Media Brands, LLC and respective content providers to this website may receive compensation for some links to products and services on this website. This greater interests has been demonstrated by Dr. Simon Baron Cohen to begin as early as the neo-nate stage: newborn boys stare longer at mechanical objects, and newborn girls stare longer at faces. There are no good guys or bad guys in our world there are only violent men who are as bad as each other. Or they can vote for a Matriarchal party and allow caring and nurturing women to rule instead. Moreover, most men who seek to invent or innovate are not "given" the tools, money, education and encouragement to do this. A recent analysis of data collected on sex differences in personality (http://www.plosone.org/article/info%3Adoi%2F10.137 found that when you measure in univariate rather than multivariate terms, there was only a ten percent overlap in personality between men and women. As for war and genocide, very few women get involved in this. It is not because men lack intelligence that they go to war. Actually women have an easier time because of quota initiatives. I not only blame men I blame all of humanity and am pretty damn ashamed to walk this earth as a human being, at least if I was an animal I could leave this earth with a natural respect and dignity in spirit from my Grandmother the Earth, but as a human being I am forced to prove myself worthy of it, which is what I will dedicate my life in doing! Patriarchy does one thing exceptionally well. That was the identity of Spartan Masculinity, Spartan women supported their men by giving them strength and pride through saying that. If you want to live in a society where women rule, the Mosuo are there waiting for you in China, in their villages with no electricity or running water, and where livestock roam through the houses. Patriarchy thinks in another way. Like the Armies of Alexander the Great, Atilla the Hun, Genghis Khan, Napoleon and Hitler. Chemistry, physics, technology, math and engineering are not organic or human systems. Which is what happens when men rule our world. The human male is similar but human males fight with spears, swords, rifles, machine guns, field guns, rockets, aircraft and nuclear weapons. But men do not have the option of aborting a child they don't want--their only option is to try to walk away.). Why would any women want to get pregnant, carry a baby in their belly for nine mouths, go through all the difficulty and pain of childbirth, and then have to look after the child she gave birth until it is an adult? We live in a world where countries still settle differences between them with warfare. Men have shown themselves to be total irresponsible rulers of our world, and wont even take responsibility for what they do. For men, it is youth and beauty, for women it is power, status and material wealth. In 1943, Maslow developed his hierarchy . Children also participted in these workings as well. I am not man basing when i say these things, they are facts. If women were as violent and aggressive as men we would have in our history great Amazon armies setting out to conquer the world. How do you know they wouldn't be under female rule? Politicians pretend to be caring, decent people so that they win voters. The property would be with the daughter after the death of her mother. That is complete bullshit, and it disrespects and dishonors the real daughters of mother's who were raised in Matriarchal households! But there you're forgetting that this has been argued many times before and has lead to disaster pretty much every time - much greater disaster than the current system has brought upon us. Was it men or women? "Certainly no man would do this. after reading about this I have noticed that whenever there is a news report about any trouble or crime it is always a man who is to blame - very rarely a woman! This as well, should be supported by valid points, and the daily . Like most female politicians in patriarchal political parties women cannot get respect and recognition unless she becomes, one of the boys. Women cannot compete against men when they use violence. Again you can have a small minority of women who are violent but they are far outnumbered by men. I just do not understand how women can dismiss it so lightly. I have to point out that history has been written by men from a male point of view. Your infantile dogmatic generalization is a slap in the face to those whom we have so much to thank for, who have often risked or even given their lives to advance democracy and equality. You're just guessing and speculating. Society is quite conservative. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NNnIGh9g6fA. Advantages of Materialism. I acknowledge that I would and I have no regrets in saying that a woman is perfectly justified in doing so. The animals reproduce by mating and reproducing a new generation. I've had to suffer and bust my ass off to prove myself worthy of every little damn thing I have and it has never been enough for anyone in my life other than my damn self! Women did not just sit on their ass and do absolutely nothing while leaving all the inventions and responsibilities to men, I have never in all my early ages of life believed that and I absolutely never will. Mind you to be fair, science does have a history of male scientists doing the same thing to each other. Believe it or not, that is a PATRIARCHAL image of women you're painting. I cannot believe that the men ruling our world are actually going to change and see the errors of their ways and become nicer people. Women have never done anything like this. So this is why we need to have Matriarchal political parties of only women, so they do not have to compete within their party with very competitive men and together can create a powerful sisterhood. Einstein was a poor student. Disadvantages of Distributed Systems. The real reason for women being less violent historically is because they had men to do the fighting for them. but I do not exclude myself in being able to think and say what is in my mind.. Our feet stink as much as any man's. "Lucy, who is it that invents and builds and uses weapons of mass destruction? As if men are free to be themselves. There is also violence by proxy. Yet this is what patriarchal government produce all the time. You just will not see the fallacy in the conclusion: "if most of xyz are men, therefore most men are xyz". Why would I? You are no better than the most radical feminist, and no better than the most traditional neo-con. What is the problem with Matriarchy? Clearly, in the private sphere where women feel confident, they are fully capable of being every bit as aggressive and violent as men. The idea of an all female government is ridiculous. Is that in the hands of men or women?". Men can be trained to become killers and this is what patrairchal goverments do to men. I don't think saying that patriarchy is not so bad because we are still alive, is not exactly a vote confidence in male rule. Yes, that could happen if women allowed it to happen. Females did not inherit, unless there were no male heirs. Women in patriarchal society tend to be subordinate to men, whereas women in matriarchal society may hold power positions. Not that biology doesn't have influence it does however, humanity is not restricted by biology in the same way animals are, we have the gift of awareness and intellect, to make a damn choice to allow ourselves to be defined by our so called accomplishments. All the team members can share their ideas and distribute . Incompetent or corupt people can mess up any system, know matter how good it is. I have no idea why I seem to be the only person saying this. We are not going to get any change until women orginize themselves and take an active role in ruling our world. You made the point about Hitler and the Nazis. We can more easily manage the data in a DBMS. And in that time, men have ruled through violence, fear and intimation. That's like saying that mustaches turn people into dictators. But as i have also pointed out the it the type of people in power that is far more important than the system they use. However, if woman believes that she does not need to conquor nature and needs only work alongside her in harmony with all life that surrounds her, then she will invent technology that reflects that. Democracy has improved on this but we still have a situation where the majority of wealth of any country, is still in the hands of only a handful of people. As long as you don't see what's wrong with that, then there's not point in discussing it. If you're not prepared to thank maleness on the whole for saving your life when that catscan detected an aneurysm, then you shouldn't be vilifying maleness on the whole for the vagaries of war. "You say that warfare comes from competing cultures and I agree with this, but who are the people competing with each other? It's just preaching. In other words, all the resources provided by nature are for exploitation. Women know this too. This is why both men and women would be better of living in a matriarchal society. If I penalize you by putting you in prison for lying in court, it will further harm the children. Not all losses are compensated The insurance may not compensate for all types of losses that occur to the insured. ". The only reason why matriarchy is possible now, is that we now have democractic goverments. Wrong. Hi girlwriteswhat, Where have I ever said that I think women are perfect!? There's nothing basic about the problems in warfare and poverty. Monarchies can require minors to serve as their country's head of state. Here too, what are you talking about. Do you think that maybe the number of men who do not want the responsibility of caring for a child and walk away might be roughly equivalent to the number of women who abort, abandon, adopt out or kill their children? One thing I don't know if you realize is that women are equally violent in their personal relationships as men. From the hydroelectric dam to the remote control to the transistor to the internal combustion engine to the suspension bridge to the refrigerator to the TV dinner to canned food? Patriarchy was not created when patriarchal tribes conquered the peaceful matriarchal Neolithic civilizations. "It is true some human men do help with caring for the young". That they have had no effect on the men in their lives, and played no part in maintaining and enforcing gender roles and perpetuating them on the next generation. I'm sure you can find a way to blame that lack of maternal instinct on men, though. Men are leaders; each time more than 3 of us get together, we practice posturing and determining who's in charge, who's the best leader. It make sense for our world to be rule by nuturing and maternal people and not the most competitive people like we have throughout our history. "differences between men and women are far, far greater than the differences between different men or different women.". I agree that women are, in general, less interested in warfare. Yes, i am a man, and as a man I am ashamed of my sex for the irrisponsible way we rule our world. However that all depends how you define Matriarchy doesn't it, among us Native American Indians a Matriarchy is a society that lives in harmony with Mother Nature; with the Earth, with animals, with each other, and with the cosmos. You like most MRA's like yourself seem to get the impression that simply because a woman raises her children on her own without the interests of a man that that makes a Matriarchal household and that that makes a Matriarchal society. Apprehension would be a serious handicap in a leadership, and sensitivity connotes a thin skin, which would at best, hinder those who are sensitive from overcoming obstacles on the path to leadership. For the ladies Mary Wolstonecroft, Ada Lovelace and Edith Girraurd. I think what is most pathetic about your statement is that your reducing men to nothing more than their biology. You can't even attempt to question your beliefs can you? I was brought up in the during the cold war when the USSR and USA had enough nuclear weopons deployed on each other that would have wiped out civilization. And when she shared in the spoils he'd taken, it had nothing to do with her. Throughout history it has been men who have ruled our world. It has expressed in other primates. It is nearly always men, and this is to do with the male competitive instinct.". If women are advocates of capitalism then they are not very good at it. What is a pity is that Lucy83 and me both want the same thing, and that is the empowerment of women. The main disadvantage of matriarchy is that it's almost bound to create a patriarchy in the long run. This is why they do a terrible job in ruling our world. People tend to believe too much of what their being told and its a pity because then, when the truth comes out everyone becomes blind to it and then chooses the lie over the truth. Men in power have been involved in these periods of peace. We've been through that and I've explained my position before. Who's poor quality of life continues to go unnoticed by the white majority, or by the majority period? It signifies a system of governance administered by women. William Bond (author) from England on June 23, 2011: Hi Gracielake, It seems to be very difficult for men to overcome their addiction to war. I know that opinions are sometimes wrong. If anything needs to be taught to the electorate, it's more skepticism towards the media and what politicians tell them (and towards writing like yours). It is because their basic instincts pushes them in that direction. But patriarchy teaches the opposite. 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